When Life Feels Unmoored: Finding Your Anchor in Unexpected Places
"We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure." — Hebrews 6:19
Sarah stared at the moving boxes stacked in her living room, each one labeled in her own careful handwriting. Kitchen. Bedroom. Books. Simple words that somehow felt like they were dismantling her entire life. After fifteen years in the same town, the same job, the same rhythm of life, everything was changing at once. Her husband's job transfer meant leaving behind their church community, their children's school friends, and the coffee shop where she'd spent countless mornings in prayer and reflection.
"I feel like I'm drifting," she confided to her sister over the phone. "Like I've lost my anchor."
Maybe you've been there too. Maybe you're there right now.
When Everything Shifts at Once
Life has a way of pulling up our anchors when we least expect it. Sometimes it's a sudden crisis—a job loss, a health diagnosis, the end of a relationship. Other times it's a gradual drift, where we wake up one day feeling spiritually dry, emotionally disconnected, or simply lost in our own lives.
The Hebrew word for "anchor" in Hebrews 6:19 is agkura, which doesn't just mean something that holds you in place—it refers to something that provides security in the midst of turbulent waters. It's not about staying stationary; it's about staying stable when everything around you is in motion.
This is what Sarah was learning as she packed her life into boxes. Her anchor wasn't the familiar places or routines she was leaving behind. Her anchor was something that could travel with her, something that couldn't be packed away or left behind.
Finding God in the In-Between
Three weeks into Sarah's cross-country drive to her new home, her car broke down in a small Kansas town she'd never heard of. While waiting for repairs, she wandered into a tiny diner where an elderly woman at the counter struck up a conversation.
"You look a little lost, honey," the woman said kindly.
Sarah almost laughed. "Actually, I think I am."
What followed was an hour-long conversation about faith, transition, and trusting God's plan. The stranger—whose name was Ruth—shared how she'd moved seventeen times during her marriage to a military chaplain.
"Each time I thought I was losing my foundation," Ruth said. "But God taught me that my foundation isn't a place. It's a Person. And He goes with me everywhere."
Before Sarah left, Ruth pressed a worn piece of paper into her hands. On it was written: "The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you." — Deuteronomy 31:8
Your Anchor Travels With You
Here's what Sarah—and maybe you—needed to remember: God doesn't anchor us to circumstances; He anchors us to Himself.
When life feels unmoored, our first instinct is often to grasp for the familiar. We want to recreate the exact conditions where we last felt close to God, peaceful, or secure. But what if God is inviting us to discover that our true anchor isn't dependent on external stability?
Consider these unexpected places where you might find your spiritual footing again:
In the Questions
Instead of fighting the uncertainty, lean into it. Ask God honest questions about where you are and where you're going. David did this constantly in the Psalms, and his raw honesty with God actually deepened his faith.
In Small Obediences
When you can't see the big picture, focus on the next faithful step. Continue reading Scripture even when it feels dry. Pray even when the words feel hollow. Sometimes faithfulness in the small things rebuilds our foundation one stone at a time.
In Unexpected Community
Like Sarah's encounter with Ruth, God often uses people we never expected to speak truth into our lives. Stay open to conversations, new relationships, and different perspectives on faith.
In Simplified Rhythms
Transition seasons are perfect times to strip away the non-essential and focus on what truly anchors your soul. Maybe it's five minutes of morning prayer instead of a lengthy quiet time. Maybe it's one verse to meditate on instead of three chapters to read.
The Deep Waters Reveal the Anchor's Strength
Six months later, Sarah sent me an email from her new home. She'd found a church, made new friends, and settled into rhythms that felt both foreign and familiar. But more importantly, she'd discovered something profound about her faith.
"I thought losing all my familiar spiritual routines would make me feel farther from God," she wrote. "Instead, I've never felt more anchored to Him. When everything else was shifting, I learned that He really is the one constant. My anchor wasn't my circumstances—it was always Him."
The storms don't break our anchor; they reveal its strength.
Anchoring Practices for Unmoored Seasons
If you're in a season of transition, change, or spiritual drifting, try these simple practices:
Morning Declaration: Start each day by declaring one truth about God's character, regardless of how you feel. "God is faithful." "God is with me." "God has a plan."
Evening Reflection: Before bed, name one way you saw God's presence that day, even if it was subtle.
Weekly Check-In: Ask yourself: "What is God teaching me in this season that I couldn't learn in stability?"
Anchor Verse: Choose one Scripture to return to repeatedly when you feel adrift. Let it become your soul's home base.
Your Unmoored Season Has Purpose
What if your current uncertainty isn't a sign that you've lost your way, but evidence that God is calling you deeper? What if this season of feeling unanchored is actually strengthening your ability to trust in the only Anchor that truly holds?
Sarah's story reminds us that sometimes God allows our temporary anchors to give way so we can discover our eternal one. The job, the relationship, the routine, the familiar place—these aren't bad things, but they were never meant to be our ultimate security.
Your anchor isn't in your circumstances. It's in Christ Himself, who goes before you into every unknown tomorrow and remains steady through every storm.
"Let your roots grow down into Him, and let your lives be built on Him." — Colossians 2:7
Even when life feels unmoored, you are held. Even when everything is changing, He remains the same. Even when you can't see the shore, your anchor holds firm in the depths.
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